But you have to get good at believing in yourself and assuming that what you want to be true, is true.that he likes you will automatically cause you to act in a way that’s more… And as a result, there’s a really good chance that he’ll end up liking you back (in the end) if you assume that he does like you.
But this summer vacation I met someone (also from the Netherlands, we met in France at a camping area) and we had a click. But today my boyfriend asked to me if I wanted to be his girlfriend and I said yes because I liked him 6 months ago and thought the feelings were still there. Hi, I have to ask questions about my relationship, my boyfriend know I love him with all my heart, I don’t feel like he feels the same, but it was he who said we are in a relationship.
The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.
My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…
OK, so what are some signs you can tell if he likes you? Here’s a checklist off the top of my head: That’s a pretty good list of things that can let you know if he’s into you.
Some guys play it cool and don’t overtly show a lot of signs, so if you don’t notice these things it doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t like you. Over the passed 8 years we have both been in relationships- long ones and short ones.
To answer your question from the information you’ve given me… From what you told me, my read on what you’re trying to figure out is one of three scenarios: a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good, b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you and you’re seeing what you want to see, c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.