Nigerian scam comes in many forms: 419 scam, when they offer to transfer millions of dollars into your bank account, or lottery scam, when they tell you that you've won something in some bogus lottery.However, Nigerian dating scam (or romance scam), besides just asking for money for their studies, sick relatives, etc..I would rather be alone than settle for anything less. When you know what you want, you don’t confuse lust, attraction, boredom, the need for attention and excitement (all powerful feelings) with love and compatibility.I don’t want to argue with those who think I should be more flexible. I have good friends who are serial daters and are never single for a second, and yet they are no closer to finding the relationship they truly seek. I don’t have the patience to waste my time in something my gut knows will not work. That being said, it doesn’t mean I haven’t allowed myself to spend time in situations driven by those other emotions.Women are usually nurses, models, charity or UNICEF workers or antique dealers.
Men are usually widowed engineers, building contractors, military, vet doctors, surgeons or antique dealers.”Right off the bat, this means that I am going to be forced to do all the work. I’ve entertained the “hi” when I was a little younger and a lot more foolish.This pisses me off, because unlike many online, I do the work.I just haven’t tried turning those interactions into full-blown relationships.Yes, this attitude is how I approach my online dating, which should make things easier, but it doesn’t.Let me delve into the pet peeves that always have me disabling my online profile after a few weeks of reactivation: However, one of the benefits of online dating is that you can quickly filter out the wrong people.