It’s something many single people wonder, myself included.My weight has fluctuated dramatically throughout my life – I was a fat child, a thin teenager, a chubby sixth former, a skinny student and so on, up and down through my adult life.The most important element to me is that no matter my size, I’m now twice as confident in my body than I was as a size 10.
I should point out that I’m an 18 at this point and happy to use the word fat because I find ‘plus size’ patronising and I mentally think of it as phat instead. I set up these profiles on free online dating site OKCupid.
Even before addressing the cause of being fat/overweight and looking at ways to get an overweight man back to a healthy weight, there are still things fat men can do to be more attractive to women. However, this is never going to be as effective as combining the above techniques with treating the true cause of the issue.
In addition, treating the true cause can often auto-correct a lot of the above as well.
Some people scurry off but many people stay back and ask me questions or listen to other people’s questions and hear the answers.
At a recent event in Melbourne Australia, I was asked a very sincere question by an overweight man which really struck me and made me want to do everything I could to help.
The profile names had to be slightly different because the site won’t allow two the same.